No matter what corner of the world we are in, this season often brings to light the feeling that whatever we are doing is not enough. We have not bought enough, or written enough, or called enough or exercised enough, or volunteered enough. From holidays in the United States to New Zealand to Italy, the feeling always arrives on time. It makes sense then, that a desire to close those gaps comes along with the new year. We are going to make resolutions to shore up all the ways we are not enough!
Here is a list of the Top 10 Most Commonly Broken New Year’s Resolutions from Time Magazine:
- Lose Weight and Get Fit
- Quit Smoking
- Learn Something New
- Eat a Healthier Diet
- Get Out of Debt and Save Money
- Spend More Time with Family
- Travel to New Places
- Be Less Stressed
- Drink Less
This year let us say, enough is enough! We don’t break resolutions because we are not strong enough, or focused enough or because we don’t have enough time. We break them because the very act of setting them, communicates that we believe we are, in this moment of our lives, NOT ENOUGH!
Perhaps the word resolution is misunderstood. A resolution is, “The mental state or quality of being resolved or resolute; firmness of purpose.” Nowhere in the definition does it say, “What is wrong with you and how will you fix it?”
This year, we can focus on our resolve and firmness of purpose to live deliberately in each moment of each day. If we focus on what IS working and come from a place of gratitude, the weight falls off, the bank account magically grows and the time to live with purpose lays out the red carpet across continents.
Thinking about the new year from a place of what is going well feels like momentum rather than a contract soon to be broken. The only explanation for this is the belief that we are enough. It does not mean goals and project plans won’t get set. It means they will flow more easily and bring more joy because we are always more productive when we feel good.
To have resolve means to “transform or determine.” This year let us be determined to transform our belief about resolutions from one of lack to one of appreciation.
Today’s Tweetable: This year let us say, enough is enough!